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Expecting The Unexpected
Virgil Fry
“How long will you hide your face from
me?” (Psalm 13:1)
— A struggler laments to God
“I will never leave you or forsake you.”
(Hebrews 13:5)
— God responds to all seekers
Here’s a couple of profoundly simple thoughts:
Life is not always fair, and life is unpredictable in spite of our
efforts to make it so.
We yearn for order; we get chaos. We codify human
behavior; we turn rebellious. We try to manage time; we find it’s
too soon passing. We assume we’ll be healthy; we encounter
illness. We trust materialism to fulfill us; we discover it’s
all easily lost.
Not a very upbeat state of this world’s existence,
is it? Ken Cope sees it like this: “We live in a fallen world,
full of disappointment and loss, and we often feel empty and unfulfilled
and incredibly alone. But while God is not there to fix our problems
and make the pain go away, he is always waling beside us. In the
ongoing journey of life, we are given the opportunity to know God
and ourselves through the process of lamenting and grieving.”
(from the book A Sacred Sorrow by Michael Card)
Lamenting and grieving? Is that allowed in 21st
Century America? Is that biblical? Is it spiritually permissible?
It may be counter-cultural, even in some churches,
but lamenting is truly biblical. Bible readers find that faithful
followers of Yahweh all encountered seasons of distress. And more
than a few of them openly, verbally, took their distresses and disgusts
right to the ears of their God.
They knew, they loved, they trusted in a God who
was not immobile, not impotent, not distant. They knew God as one
knows an actual loving parent, one open to all expressions: praise
and dismay, thanksgiving and frustration. And they are called faithful.
So when life crashes in on us, when dreams shatter
into shards, when the doctor delivers startling news, when the house
is destroyed by fire, when the stable job is lost, when the friend
become an enemy, when lack of control depresses our spirits, when
the world is overrun with evil; be faithful. Go to the Psalms, particularly
the questioning ones, the laments not read in Sunday morning worship
services.
Find a trusted faithful companion. Pray with brutal
honesty. Unload the burden, with all its ugly sentiments. There
is hope to be found in voiced despair.
And know, truly know, that our God is one who will
always live up to this promise: I will never leave you nor forsake
you.
— Copied from The Sandusky Sower
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