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"Don't Do It"
Young people often complain that their parents and the preacher are always saying, “Don't do that!” We realize there is much truth in this complaint.
I want to tell you why we say “Don't” so much, and why you hear from us, with almost annoying repetition, “Please be careful.”
I want to tell you why we want to know where you are going, and with whom, what you'll be doing, when you'll be home, etc.!
It is not because we do not have any confidence in you. It isn't because we think you don't know anything or that you're completely lacking in judgment. And, contrary to what you must often think, it’s not because we do not want you to have a good time.
We're concerned about you because we know from experience (and even our own sinful mistakes!) the danger that surrounds you. We are more sensitive to danger than you are. We know the real strength of temptation that will come your way.
Young lady, when your mother says: “Be good,” she is not saying, “I don't trust you.” She is saying, “I love you. I trust you. I know what temptation is. May God always be close enough to help you overcome it.”
Young man, when your father says: “Please be careful.” He is not saying, “You don't have sense enough to take care of yourself.” He is saying, “I love you. I don't want anything to happen to you.”
Teenagers, let me say a word for moms and dads. We love you. You are the most precious possessions we have. All our hopes and aspirations for the future are wrapped up in you. We would rather die than lose you - physically, morally, or spiritually.
We only ask that young people weigh carefully the advice of their parents. We are trying sincerely to help. We know we should be as positive as possible in making decisions about your life and more especially in your recreational activities. But there are times when we must say, “Don't do that!”
Author unknown — Copied from Orange Street’s bulletin
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